Friday, August 26, 2011

My Daughters Birth Story


Ready??? here we go

I had just turned 36 weeks pregnant and notice that I was starting to get short of breath and terrible palpitations after mentioning it to my OB's nurse practitioner plenty of times and her telling me that it was normal because Chyanne was not head down but across my belly. I started having a very hard time sleeping at night because when I would lay flat i would not breathe well and this took place every night but Sunday night was different I laid in bed gasping for air and decided to sit on the couch and try to sleep while my dear husband tried to help me get comfortable. Very early Monday morning Aug 23, 2010 when my husband left to work I decided to call my local hospital and tell them my symptoms, I was told to go in because it sounded like i had severe pneumonia or bronchitis. I arrived at the L&D triage and after monitoring the baby i was told that everything looked good and that i could go back home. I thought they were crazy because i was literally gasping for air so i decided to wait in the emergency waiting area, while I was there the admitting nurse got worried and took me back and was stunned when she checked my vitals my heart was beating at 140 beats per minute, my oxygen levels were 78-80%, my blood pressure was so high that she thought i was going to have a stroke in the 130's, she could hear a crackling sound in my chest and my heart was only pumping at 50-55%. The sweet nurse that helped me put me on high oxygen and called my husband and told him to leave work and hurry to the hospital (my poor husband was 1:30 away). I was sent for xrays and an echocardiogram to see what was happening since the nurses had not seen this before. My husband was at my side when a couple of doctors came in to tell me that I was in congestive heart failure, pulmonary hypertension and leaking aortic, mitral and triscupid valves. We were stunned and I was moved into the intensive care unit for a couple of hours until a group of doctors and nurses came in to tell us that I was going to have an emergency c-section in 30 minutes and that I was going to be put under general anesthesia and that my husband was not going to be allowed in the room because they were going to pump fluids out from around my heart and from my lungs. My poor husband was heartbroken because we both wanted to see our little girl be born and he was looking forward to cutting the umbilical cord. It was then that i called my family to tell them what was happening once they arrived at the hospital I was rushed into the operating room and woke up later that night. I was terribly sad since everyone had seen my daughter but me, my husband showed me picture after picture of our much anticipated little girl and I couldnt wait to meet her. The next day i was allowed to leave the ICU to meet my little girl SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL. We were at the hospital for 5 days and after my cardiologist told us that if my valves didnt close then he would have to fix them we were discharged only to get sick again the next night and head back to the hospital. I was again gasping for air and shaking and the doctor ordered a cat scan to check for a pulmonary embolism which came back normal and I was sent back home again only to be rushed back to the hospital by ambulance because I felt like I was going to pass out, shaking, short of breath, throwing up and a hot/cold sweat. This cardiologist gave me my diagnosis Peripartum Cardiomyopathy (PPCM) and adjusted my medications (Hydralazine 10mg and Metropolol 50mg) and gave me lasix (water pill) and I lost 25 pounds overnight from peeing and peeing every 15 minutes and having nothing to drink, I was discharged 3 days later to enjoy life as a new mommy.


It has been a year since my diagnosis and after numerous EKG's and Echos I have been told that I am what is considered recovered. I have made it my mission to educate pregnant woman about this rare but deadly disease since I had never heard of it before and when I mentioned it to my OB she said "It is to rare to mention it to every pregnant woman that comes in". I had an appointment with my cardiologist two days ago where he decided to take me off medications and give me an echo in three months to check for any relapse.



I got to finally meet my beautiful daughter almost 24 hours after she was born.

Here is Chyanne Harlow holding her daddy's finger

Chyanne getting kisses from her tia Rocio at just a day old. She was so aware of her surroundings at this time.



At her first doctors appointment at just 5 days old. This was right before i was rushed to the hospital again

Ready to go visit Mimi


she looks so much like her daddy here




Love Brenda <3

Thursday, August 25, 2011

Look at what I found


This is a picture of my feet at 30 weeks pregnant


Next post will be my daughters traumatic birth story..............
Love Brenda <3

Coming to the END of my pregnancy~ weeks 33/36

I kept on swelling and swelling at almost 36 weeks at one of my routine check ups I was told that I should stop eating so much because I still had around five weeks to go and had already gained 60 pounds which is more that some women carrying twins gain....... I was livid because here I was 35.5 weeks pregnant, extremely swollen, short of breath, tired and to top it off I was being called fat how dare she....... I told the nurse practitioner that I didnt think my body could carry five more weeks and she walked out giggling..... My blood pressure was very high but I was sent home to keep an eye on it and that I did I checked my blood pressure every 30 minutes and it kept getting higher and higher and to the hospital I went where I was left to wait in a waiting area for FIVE FREAKEN HOURS and by the time I was seen my pressure was back to normal.
I started not being able to walk for long or lay flat without gasping for air and swelling ridiculously, it got to the point where I would dread night time because I couldnt lay flat because I thought I was going to pass out but was always told "you are carrying a large baby" the weekend before my daughter was born I tried to sleep while sitting on the couch but barely slept two hours... the very next day a warm Monday morning exact date August 23, 2010 at 5:30 in the morning I sent my husband off to work then rushed myself to the hospital gasping for air thinking that I was about to die...............
Brenda <3

The Rest of My Pregnancy...... week 28-32



Okay so my little girl is now ONE (turned one two days ago) and I am planning to write some posts to catch up to now :)
Please Take note of my CRAZY swelling......

week 30/31 was scary because after a long day at work and while resting on the couch with my feet up trying to help the swelling I felt some crampyness and my back started to kill me... after going to the bathroom for the 20000000th time I notice that I was bleeding and imediately texted my OB (yes I know I have her cell number lol) and she told me to head to the hospital where she was at. At the hospital I was hooked on to monitors and yup I was in preterm labor because that damn bladder infection was resistant to the amoxicillin..... after 2 shots of terbutaline, a bad case of the shakes and being told that I was ONE centimeter dialated we were headed home for some much needed sleep and a note that instructed me to stop working cold turkey.....
at 30 weeks I received a call from my OB while at work where she told me that my urine test indicated a bladder infection.... to my suprise her office had known about this infection for two freaking weeks and barely thought about notifying me. what the heck...... well i was given a week long prescription of amoxicillin...... I talked to the the doctor about my crazy swelling and she mentioned that they might put me on early maternity leave.....
It looks like my belly dropped this week.....at least in this picture well kind of early i think



Brenda <3

Friday, June 18, 2010

Progressing well....

Lil Miss Chyanne...

is growing and growing and moving around like crazy some nights. Just the other night I had some orange juice before going to bed and she got a boost of energy from the sugary treat that she put on a show for her daddy.


Hope you are all enjoying keeping up with my blog. We are getting closer to meeting out lil girl
and going crazy planning a baby shower with over 100 guests... What can I say I know a lot of people :) and have to invite them all.


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Sneek Peek....

Maternity Shoot.....












well my lil brothers girlfriend Alli offered to take our maternity pictures. She is amazingly talented at 16 years old.... yes I said 16....She also said that she will be lil Chyanne's personal photographer sooo be prepared for some very adorable pictures to come ...
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here is some of them:

Friday, June 4, 2010

The Bigger the Better.........

The belly is getting bigger... the feet are getting swollen, I am getting tired, my back hurts BUT I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT.....because it means that my sweet lil Chyanne is getting bigger and stronger....
We got started on the nursery.... Here is a sneak peek..... cute isnt it...??
I started to feel her roll... like rolling around in my belly.....its super cute.. also my husband was talking to my belly the other night and she kicked up a storm..He love it